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February 2025

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“Hush little Nikki, don’t say a word. Papi’s gonna buy you a looking glass.” I can still hear his gruff voice lulling me–sometimes when I least expect it. If I close my eyes tightly enough, I can smell the musk of his cologne, feel the stubble from his five o’clock shadow skim my forehead while he sings. If I concentrate long enough, I’m a little girl again, sitting on my grandfather’s knee. His warmth envelops me while we sway gently. His heart beats against my cheek and I inhale the  ...

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Musings

Talented

Grace tap-danced across the living room’s parquet floors in her black top hat, bow tie, and dance uniform. I stared, marveled by her new talent. She had just started lessons, and I already thought she was so good. But I wasn’t jealous. Rather, I was proud to be her younger cousin. Proud to be part of a family that had so much talent. I bubbled with excitement about when it’d be my turn to share my talent. Un aplauso por favor, my older cousin, Gretchen, said, mimicking Don Franscico, the  ...

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Wellness

21 Days of Belonging

As soon as I read the email, the word whispered in my head. Still, I searched. Wholeness? Healing? Community? What felt safe enough to commit to for 21 days? To publish and share? “belonging” the voice echoed, stronger this time. But I’m tired of talking about belonging. Of trying to find people committed to it. I’m tired of coming up empty. Emptiness, perhaps that’s my theme. Surely, I can write about emptiness for 21 days, right? It’s the perfect topic for a writing challenge. “Belonging”  ...

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